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Do Not Conform Any Longer

August 1, 2012

Woe to those who call evil good
and good evil,
who put darkness for light
and light for darkness,
who put bitter for sweet
and sweet for bitter!

Isaiah 5:20

I’m just gonna jump right in.

Of all things in the Chick Fil A controversy the one that has my heart afire are the people who are calling themselves christians and yet are fighting against a christian based company. My question is: why? Why would somebody who proclaims to be a “christian” not want to be joined with brothers and sisters in Christ? We are meant to be an army for Christ not against Him. Why do people want to be called “christians” and yet not want to follow Him?

Here’s a solution. Don’t call yourself a christian.

If you believe Yahweh is so flawed in His thinking and in His commandments then why would you want to follow somebody like that?

There have been countless articles filling newsites with believers and non-believers blasting Chick Fil A for not wavering on their faith. How dare Dan Cathy actually believe what we preaches? Are we so used to the American gospel that we’ve forgotten how incredibly radical the Bible is?

And when I say “believers” are blasting Chick Fil A I want you to know I’m using that term very loosely.

You believe that God is one; you do well. Even the demons believe—and shudder!      James 2:19

I don’t want to know if you are a Christian. I don’t care if you’re a believer. I will call you a brother or sister when you show that you are a follower. When the Holy Spirit is so evident in your life that no one can deny it.

You have faith and I have works.” Show me your faith apart from your works, and I will show you my faith by my works…Do you want to be shown, you foolish person, that faith apart from works is useless?    James 2:18 & 20

Will you buck the system and follow Christ no matter the consequences? Even if that means your business is going to tank? Even if that means your friends will all leave you? Faith is not easy. Your humaness is going to fight you at every decision. Comfort in this life seems so much more desirable to our here-and-now than a hope of eternity with Christ. I even hate writing that but it’s true. It’s a constant battle of will.

So back to Chick Fil A. Do I believe that every single person that went through the drive thru today was a follower of Christ? Absolutely not. Some were probably just christians in name only. Some probably went for political reasons. On the other hand, do I believe that every person that didn’t go to Chick Fil A is a lost cause and has an eternity of Hell awaiting them? Absolutely not! On one hand, not everyone has the money to buy a meal today. I had to search my house and car for the funds to take my family out for lunch. It wasn’t easy but I definitely wanted to show my support for my brother, Dan Cathy. Without diving into too much theology, most people are not a lost cause. There is hope for all of us! No matter your background we can be saved…if we want and are willing to be saved.

My anger over all this controversy definitely stems for people being led astray. Non-followers will so easily take scripture and throw it in others faces. Despite the fact they’ve never opened a Bible and don’t know the context of said scripture. And you know what that’s doing? That my friends is an open door to an eternity of gnashing of teeth. So when followers of Christ stick to their guns and don’t hang out in their basements, hiding away from the world, that is true love. Speaking truth of Yahweh has nothing to do with hate but with love and a hope of a glorious eternity.

My friends, we’re in a war. We can only assume these are birth pangs. It’s not like we weren’t warned all of this was coming. But we need to encourage and strengthen our brothers and sisters in Christ. This spiritual war is only going to get more difficult and more painful. Keep your eyes on Christ. Remember that controversies like Chick Fil A may seem politically based but it’s so much more than that. This is a fight against people blaspheming our God. And that, my loves, is a war worth fighting for. I will not sit idly by while others blaspheme my Father. I’m not going to become Peter and cut off peoples ears. My goodness. But I will support the fight for Him in a loving manner.

With all that said, I do want to share our Chick Fil A experience today!

We decided to go early to miss the lunch crowd. Ha! That didn’t happen! The place was packed! The parking lot was near full and the drive-thru was crazy long! Mind you, this was at 10:45am. Cars were trying to get in the drive-thru from three different directions. And everyone was patient and waited eagerly to support our local Chick Fil A.

I won’t lie, I was on the verge of tears. It’s like when I sing worship on Sunday morning with all my brothers and sisters at church. The feeling of true fellowship is so overwhelming that my eyes can’t contain His passion. Seeing all these cars lined up to support Chick Fil A…it’s truly indescribable to those who don’t understand His love. When you know and can taste His love, nothing tastes better.

When we finally arrived at the window I saw the manager.

An awesome man of God who has always taken the time to talk to our family every time we visit. I told him I was going to cry from all the outpouring of community and he told me he already had. I have no doubt that had his store not made a penny that day that he still would have counted it a blessing to work for a company that stands by their convictions.

So here is the icing on the cake. We were driving home with Chick Fil A in the passenger seat. I look to the side and see McDonalds. This McDonalds has two lanes for the crowds. There was one car in each lane at 11:35am. Two cars! Now, before you read into this too deeply, this by no means is a blast to McDonalds but a standing ovation for Chick Fil A and their supporters!

I pray if you’re not already a follower that His spirit is tugging at your heart. We only have one lifetime to make a decision on who we will follow and if we’re willing to risk it all. Are you going to risk eternity in Heaven or risk a lifetime of comfort? I know how hard the decision is. So prayerfully consider which you’ll faithfully stand by.

Blessings!

Called to Deliver

June 3, 2012

I have been struggling the past few months. As you can tell this site has been left to the wayside. I couldn’t bring myself to blog. I felt gripped by the stronghold to please others. I would find advice on how to properly blog.

Tweet this.

Join this party.

Be consistant in how often you post.

Have a large following.

I couldn’t carry that pressure and be a mother of many and wife of one grace filled man. I was being stretched too thin by expectations. So I quit. If I couldn’t be there for everybody I was stopping and only choosing my family. Easy peasy. Drop the site.

But it wasn’t that easy. For the past month or so I have been lovingly encouraged by the Holy Spirit to get back to writing. I tried to brush it off. Every so often there would be another tug. Never a pressure, just a strong ‘you-should-be-doing-this’. Sermons at church. Words from friends. Words from complete strangers. Callers on the radio. Many random moments all came together and have brought me back. The last encouragement was through a sermon at church this morning. As a Christ follower I am called to be a deliverer of His message of reconciliation and hope to others. So are you if you follow Him. But like most things I thought the market was saturated enough. There are so many amazing and inspiring christian blogs out there, I would just be white noise. My story isn’t nearly as exciting as others. I’m simply a stay at home mom who wants to be humble enough to not stand out but to encourage others on their walk with Christ. However, if you’re a Christ follower you shouldn’t be able to blend in. Nothing about your life should be plain and especially not boring. And that’s when I realized He wasn’t my everything anymore. Life had gotten in the way. Being a wife, being a mother, being a friend, being a photographer, etc. all had garnered more of my attention. There were breaks where I would come running back to Him. But everything I did would slowly fade away. Or rather I would allow my time for Yahweh to fade away. Like when you want nothing more than to spend time with a loved one but they always seem busy with something else that is more enjoyable to them. I treated my God like a second rate idol. And I am here to apologize publicly to Him for not showing Him the respect, honor, love and devotion that He deserves.

The updates here won’t be consistent. I won’t be joining any blogging parties or twitter parties or anything like that to promote my name. All that will be lifted up here is His name. Oh there will be occasional recipes and such but that is because I am writing with the intent of also training up my children. I want to be able to share with them things we did as they were growing.

I want to ask you the same question that was posed to us during church today.

Who are the people you’re supposed to be a deliverer to? Are you standing up and giving His message or are you shrinking back and assuming somebody else will fill your place?

Yahweh created you for a purpose. To spread His name all over the earth. Whether that be through blogging, through co-workers, through playdates with other moms, through your local coffee shop pick up – anywhere. He can use you wherever you are, whenever and however He pleases. As long as we’re willing to listen to Him. If you feel the Holy Spirit tugging on your heart don’t brush it off. Follow with your whole heart so that your life is full of color among the grey.

Don’t.

Blend.

In.

 

Blessings!

We love big families. Love seems like such a lame word to use to describe our joy in being parents to a quiverfull. And yet I’ve noticed a terrible, terrible trend since becoming a mother of more than two.

Big families are treated like a burden on society. Let me make this clear – I don’t know one family that has four or more and is living off the government. Yet we are asked to support a woman’s choice to end life but nobody respects a large families choice to give life. The comments we receive can be harsh. And they’re said right in front of our children. Cruel words to heap upon a child’s listening ears.

Recently we’ve had the enormous blessing of reading Family Driven Faith by Voddie Baucham. We also went to the Teach Them Diligently homeschool convention. For the first time in our parental lives my husband and I felt normal. There were families all around that were just like us. No rude comments were made. There were children everywhere! And might I add – the most well behaved children. Yes there were occasional outbursts but the manners would have knocked you over.

Why is it so difficult for Americans to appreciate life? Why do we stop congratulating after child number three? Why do we think we have any say in what happens between a man, woman and God? I can not even begin to count the amount of women I’ve come across that, once they find out their pregnant with their third, fourth, fifth, sixth or more how completely terrified they are to tell their families. Namely parents or in laws. These poor women should be celebrating that God is blessing them and instead they try to hide this blessing from the inevitable persecution.

Here is a sermon I am praying you’ll listen to. Maybe you’re naive to all of this. Take a listen and learn about the struggles of rejection that large families deal with on a daily basis and how we need to change our mindsets.

Centrality of the Home

So maybe you’re single. Maybe you have one or two children. Maybe you have no idea what I’m talking about. Here is a list of comments my husband and I have either received or our friends have. You parents of big families, I imagine you will be nodding in agreement to all of these. I’m so sorry that you are. I hope peoples hearts will be more open to accepting our decision to follow God’s command. But even if they’re not I know that you, my loves, are gathering treasures in Heaven and obey our Father and not societies shaking head.

 

 

Blessings!

Spread the Word

March 5, 2012

My deepest apologies for having been absent for so long. I have a very good reason why I’ve been in hiding. Which you’ll discover somewhat through this post.

Back in January had the honor of being accepted as a One Verse Blogger. I was so excited to hear of our first assignment. To go throughout our house and collect all of our Bibles. At first I was very eager to begin. Then I looked around my house. Oh the clutter. There was no possible way I was going to find all of them. I was laden with guilt. My house was filled with Bibles that were so tucked away and not in our hearts. So I began a journey. For the past six weeks I’ve been decluttering my house. But this will be an entirely different post so fast forward to the present and I easily walked through the house and gathered all of our Bibles that hadn’t been donated in the past month and a half.

This isn’t even all of them! As I’m writing I’m remembering others. My favorite one that I keep in my purse. I’m sure there’s one in the car. There’s a double of the Jesus Storybook Bible {one for the kids and one for mom and dad to read from}. At least 23 in total.

{{I just remembered my phone and kindle! Those should have been photographed as well!}}

I recall some years ago a loved one telling me we didn’t have enough Bibles in our house. At the time we only had a couple. And honestly? I was offended. How many Bibles does one need after all?? I kept recalling a story of a man in Africa who only had one page from a Bible, that’s it. And he poured over it and memorized each and every beautiful word he was able to receive.

It’s been quite a few years and I realize how strong I was in my faith, but how naive I was also. My loved one was right. We had a couple Bibles and that was not enough. Not for each one of us to have. And not for other areas of our homes. As spoiled as I feel writing this, I love that we all have the same Bibles that we read around the kitchen table. My children each have their own Bibles appropriate for their ages. We have study Bibles, storybook Bibles, Archeological Bibles, NIV, ESV, KJV, etc.

Growing up the only Bible I had was the childrens Bible you see on top in the back row. We had a humongous Bible that sat on a stand in our living room but no one ever opened it or read from it. Probably an old family Bible passed down through the generations?

How many Bibles are in your home? Would you be willing to take a photo and share? I’ll be more than happy to share the photos on here in a future post. How many Bibles do you think a family needs?

Do you know there are entire people groups that don’t have the word of God? Have never even heard of the Word?? I won’t lie, I feel blanketed in guilt for having so many Bibles and only one of them has been completely read through. One is even still in its box for goodness sake! But God does not condem a reptentive heart. I am excited to be taking my family on a journey through the Bible alongside my husband. I want my children to know how important His word is. I want our house littered with Bibles! And I want the world littered with Bibles as well. I’m praying that those unreached people groups will “taste and see that the Lord is good.”

OneVerse Blogger
Blessings!

The Gift of Words

January 16, 2012

When was the last time you received something in the mail that was hand written? I bet your heart leapt a little when you saw handwriting among all the bills stuffed within your post box. Maybe it was colorful? {those are the best!} A birthday card? A surprise letter from a friend far away? Whatever it was it more than likely made your day. And, if you’re like me, you still have it. I don’t keep emails. They’re so easily sent back and forth and with little thought. But a card or a letter. Well now, those take time, money and thought. Those tell me that somebody was thinking of little me. That I was heavy in their thoughts that day. And that feeling of worth is desperately needed nowadays by all of us.

We so easily throw our thoughts out there on social media, whether people care or not. And comments come in, whether they are welcome or not. We’ve all tried to delete comments or emails that, after a few seconds of thought, we regretted sending. A handwritten something takes time. You’re thinking about what you’re going to write as you go to the store and pick out the card. As you find a pen. As you take a seat and write the recipients name. You even have time to review what you’ve written as you wait for the postman. Time, all this time, spent on one person who is probably longing for a feeling of recognition.

Bless someone today and write to them. You could easily use a piece of notebook paper. Or you could go a little farther and send a beautiful heartfelt card. Dayspring has a wonderful selection of cards you can choose from. They also have a great card club, the Heart Connection Card Club, at a great deal. Which gives you time to think ahead of who you can send cards to. And a fantastic card organizer! The rare times I’ve actually had blank cards in the house I usually toss them in a drawer and don’t find them again til years later. This organizer will easily keep me up to date on birthdays and able to send loved ones notes on a whim without having to tear the house apart. And can I be honest? I don’t like the cards at the grocery store. They’re so plain. But something filled with His word, now that’s beautiful.

So here below you can see what you get with the Heart Connection Card Club.

{Card Organizer}

{Many collections of cards to choose from}

 

{The organizer has inserts that help you to keep track of birthdays and important dates}

 

{Wonderful accordion type organizer to keep you on top and ahead so you can bless your friends and family}

 

So today I’m sending a card to a dear friend of mine from back home. She is planning a mission trip to Haiti this spring with her entire family. My husband and I have a heart for Haiti and are excited to be partnering with her in this mission. I’m also excited and praying about who the Lord wants me to bless next.

Take time today and set out to bless someone who has been on your heart this week. You have no idea how drastically you can improve someones day by taking time for them. And please, remember to pray before and while you are writing that the Spirit may give you the words that will touch this special soul.

Blessings!