This morning I was blessed with the opportunity to meet with a handful of godly women for breakfast. This is not something I normally do. With five little ones at home I rarely even leave the house for groceries let alone to go out on my own. With no children in tow. All by myself. Alone. I won’t lie, it was rather odd at first. And slightly uncomfortable since I’m usually counting little bodies wherever we go. But can I tell you this won’t be the last time! This tired mama didn’t realize how desperately I needed other sisters in Christ.
Are you a stay at home mom? How often do you get out with girlfriends and take the time to renew your mind. I could tell I was getting to the end of my rope as the smallest disobedience at home was setting me off like a firecracker. My children would drip tears and I would carry guilt the rest of the day and through the night. I’d wake up ready to try again and off I’d go. No grace fell from these lips. After meeting with these beautiful Sisters I returned home a completely different woman than how I had left earlier that morning. These women were saturated in grace. My family could notice a difference when I returned. My lips were now dripping with grace for my beloveds.
Can you find time during the week to renew your soul and strengthen your spirit with other Sisters? I don’t want to push but I do want to gently encourage you to seek out that time. Maybe invite a girlfriend over for coffee? It had been a long, long, long time since I had taken real time away for myself. I had been gone for 2 1/2 hours! That felt like an eternity and I almost felt guilty! Wondering if the house was still standing! Were the kids ok? Should I call my husband and let him know I’ll be home as soon as possible? I hope he’s not cross I was gone so long.
Where, oh where, does that guilt come from? He was fine. The children were fine. The house was still standing. Tummies were fed and I got the beautiful gift of being the one to be tackled with hugs when I walked in the door!
Take your sabbath. Step away from the dirty clothes and dishes. They’ll still be there {I promise}. Dive into some amazing, godly relationships. Invest in some friendships. Renew your soul for yourself and for your loved ones. It’s worth every blessed moment.
Blessings!
